When writing the text for your profile, there aren’t any hard-and-fast rules, but there are several things you want to keep in mind to make sure you’ll attract men.

The woman’s About section below is charming, detailed but not too long, insightful, and funny. See how this woman said three general things about herself (don’t most women love fun and wearing dresses and want a prince charming?

The only exception is if you look the same as you did five years ago or whatever the case is.

Here's what I've learned about writing a good ad: 1.

Props that make you feel soulful, frisky, and fascinating help you make those claims for yourself in your ad. It might sound obvious, but be sure to post a terrific photo of yourself. More to the point: I wanted to attract a man who appreciated subtlety.

See how this headline gives you a snapshot of who this woman is and what she’s interested in? This headline won’t tell men anything about this woman and how they could be compatible with her.

Play around with a few headlines before you decide on the final one. It implies a negative connotation that she doesn’t really want to be online dating and didn’t feel like taking the time to present herself in the best light.

A woman I know snagged a boyfriend when she described her ideal job as a combination of circus performer and archaeologist. Unless you know for sure that you only want to meet, say, a nonsmoking Portuguese-speaking dentist, go easy on the list of qualities he must have.

Don't "like fine dining" when you can be passionate about Memphis barbecue, don't "enjoy movies" when you can declare your enthusiasm for Mel Brooks. Include the basics: your age and occupation, whether or not you have children, whether you're looking for a date or a life partner. "Mid-30s" or "early 40s" is fine, but assume he'll round up.8.

A study by Wired, who analyzed data from Ok and Match.com, identified 1,000 keywords that are the best and worst options.

Words you should try to use include “yoga”, “surfing”, “Radiohead”, “abs”, and “whom”.

Uploading a photo is one of the first steps is to creating your profile.